So today I asked Julee how helpful I was on a scale of 1 to 10. (Earlier today after work, and prior to asking this question, I had helped her hang up a wall decoration, convinced Carlee to use the potty, fed both kids, and cleaned all the dishes). She gave me a 6! A little hurt I asked her what she thought other husbands did, and pointed out that a 60% is a failing grade. Her response: "You do something good, but then you always follow it up with something that cancels it out.